A Journey of Growth

It’s been nearly two years since I arrived in Athens, and in that time, I’ve truly learned what it means to grow my wings. When I say I’ve grown wings, I mean it’s time for me to spread them and explore the world around me, much like a bird taking its first flight. Moving to a new country is not just about changing locations; it’s about personal growth, discovering new opportunities, and learning to navigate life on your own. A little over a year ago, I landed in Greece with hopes, dreams, and a desire for adventure. Today, I want to share my journey of self-discovery, challenges, and triumphs while living in this beautiful country.

This is the latest photo taken during our visit to Perious last week.

Arriving in Athens was both thrilling and daunting. The rich history, breathtaking architecture, and vibrant culture were enough to spark excitement in anyone's heart. However, being in a foreign city can also feel overwhelming. After all, it’s one thing to visit as a tourist and quite another to live there. My first few months were filled with exploration and adaptation. I wandered through the ancient streets of Plaka, marveled at the Acropolis, and tasted delicious local cuisine.

At first, I felt like a small fish in a big sea, trying to find my place. The language barrier posed a challenge, and understanding the local customs took time. However, I quickly realized that immersing myself in the culture was the best way to adapt. I began learning Greek phrases, joining community events, and making local friends. The more I connected with my surroundings, the more comfortable I became.

As I settled into my new life, I discovered the joy of exploring Athens alone. Initially, the thought of wandering the city solo seemed intimidating. However, I soon found that striking out on my own allowed me to see things from a different perspective. I learned to enjoy my own company, celebrate small victories, and appreciate the freedom that comes with independence.

Exploring Athens became a part of my daily routine. I would wake up early, grab a cup of coffee at a cozy café, and set off on foot to discover hidden gems. From secret gardens to charming boutiques, each outing brought new surprises. I took countless photographs, documenting my adventures, which became cherished memories that I would look back on fondly.

With every step I took in Athens, I became more aware of the opportunities surrounding me. The desire to work and make a living in a foreign country is natural, and I soon found myself seeking employment. I was fortunate enough to secure an interview for a housekeeping position in a hotel, which seemed like a great chance to gain experience in the hospitality industry. However, the reality hit me hard: I didn't have the legal permit to work yet.

While it was disappointing not to be able to take that opportunity, I refused to let it dampen my spirits. Instead, I chose to adapt and look for alternative options. That’s when I came across a unique job opportunity: assisting a yoga teacher with house-cleaning twice a week. It wasn’t something I had considered, but I decided to give it a shot.

Taking a job as a house cleaner was a significant shift from my initial ambitions. However, I approached it with an open mind and a willingness to learn. The yoga teacher I worked for valued a calm and organized environment, and I found satisfaction in helping create that space. Each cleaning session became more than just a task; it turned into a mindfulness practice for me.

Cleaning someone else's home taught me valuable lessons in responsibility and attention to detail. Every corner I dusted and every surface I scrubbed had the potential to make someone’s day a little brighter. Plus, the job paid RM240 a day, a decent amount of money that helped cover my living expenses.

Through this experience, I not only gained financial stability but also built a rapport with the yoga teacher. She shared her teachings and philosophies about life and well-being, enriching my understanding of self-care and mindfulness. This connection reminded me that every experience, no matter how small, can lead to meaningful relationships and insights.

By nurturing my wings in this new country, I learned significant lessons about confidence and independence. Living alone in Athens pushed me outside of my comfort zone. I began to trust my instincts more and make decisions without relying on others. Whether it was navigating public transport, finding a new favorite café, or initiating conversations with locals, I embraced each moment as an opportunity for growth.

Additionally, I started to appreciate my strengths and embrace my unique experiences. Each challenge I faced in Athens—be it cultural differences, language barriers, or job searching—helped shape my character. 

However, weekends have always held a special place in my heart. They mark a time for relaxation and rejuvenation, a brief escape from the daily hustle and bustle. To be honest, I often find myself in a state of relaxation throughout the week, even amidst chores and responsibilities. Life is truly good when you surround yourself with the right people, especially when you are married to someone who treats you like royalty. My partner has been a source of support, love, and laughter, bringing out the best in me. 

Weekends in Athens are something to be treasured. We call it our “kitchen off-day,” which means we take the opportunity to indulge in delightful culinary experiences outside our home. There’s something incredibly satisfying about dining out, discovering local flavors, and enjoying the vibrant atmosphere of the city on a lazy Saturday or Sunday.

One of the joys of living in Athens is the abundance of traditional Greek food available at every corner. From quaint tavernas to trendy restaurants, the choices are endless. This weekend ritual of eating out has become a cherished tradition for us. It allows us to sample different dishes and make memories over shared meals. 

We love to start our weekends with brunch at a cozy local café. Our culinary explorations extend beyond breakfast. We often wander through the bustling markets, sampling street food like souvlaki and gyros, always coupled with a dash of tzatziki sauce. The flavors dance upon our taste buds—a delicious reminder of why Greek cuisine is so beloved worldwide. 

In the evenings, we usually venture out to try different dinner spots. Sometimes we enjoy a casual meal at a traditional taverna where hearty dishes like moussaka and pastitsio are served with local wine. Other times, we might opt for a modern fusion restaurant that offers a twist on classic Greek flavors. Each meal becomes an adventure as we discover new tastes, textures, and combinations. 

Having a balance between work and relaxation is essential, especially when living abroad and navigating the challenges that come with it. While my weekdays may involve cleaning jobs or job-seeking endeavors, weekends act as a gentle reminder to take care of myself and nurture my relationship. It’s easy to forget our well-being amidst responsibilities, but I’ve learned that prioritizing relaxation is crucial for maintaining a healthy mental state.

To truly embrace relaxation, I’ve made it a point to disconnect from the hustle during weekends. We often indulge in leisurely strolls around historic neighborhoods, visiting art galleries, or simply sitting in parks watching the world go by. These moments of tranquility help recharge my spirit and inspire me creatively and emotionally. 

As I move forward in my journey of independence and self-discovery, I’ve come to realize that joy can be found in everyday life. Whether exploring Athens’ historic sites, enjoying a meal at a lovely café, or spending quiet moments at home, I am learning to appreciate the little things that bring happiness. 

Greeks have a saying, "Kalos Orisate," which translates to “Welcome.” This welcoming spirit has inspired me to embrace both the challenges and joys of life in Greece. In return, I aim to welcome new experiences with open arms, cultivating gratitude for each opportunity that arises. 

Every day is an opportunity to grow my wings a little further, whether it’s through work, personal relationships, or life experiences. And as I continue to learn, explore, and enjoy the beauty of Athens, my heart is filled with gratitude for the journey ahead.

Reflecting on my nearly two-year journey in Greece, I’m amazed by how far I’ve come. Yes, there are ups and downs, but every experience has contributed to my growth. God is good!